BUILDING CONFIDENCE: THE UNKNOWN

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PLANNING AND PREPARATION
People often feel less confident about new or potentially difficult situations. Perhaps the most important factor in developing confidence is planning and preparing for the unknown.


If you are applying for a new job for example, you would be wise to prepare for the interview. Plan what you would want to say in the interview and think about some of the questions that you may be asked.  Practise your answers with friends or colleagues and gain their feedback.
There are many other examples of planning for an interview, perhaps you should visit the hairdresser before you go. 
How are you going to travel to the interview?
How long will the journey take? 
What should you wear? 
Take control of unknown situations the best you can, break down tasks into smaller sub-tasks and plan as many as you can.
learning
LEARNING AND EXPERIENCE
Knowing what to expect and how and why things are done will add to your awareness and usually make you feel more prepared and ultimately more confident.
Learning and gaining knowledge can sometimes make us feel less confident about our abilities to perform roles and tasks, when this happens we need to combine our knowledge with experience. By doing something we have learned a lot about we put theory to practice which develops confidence and adds to the learning and comprehension.
First-time parents to-be may well feel nervous and less than confident about having a baby. They are likely to buy books or visit websites which can offer advice and dispel some of the mysteries. They are also likely to talk to other parents to gain knowledge and understanding.
In the workplace, training may be provided for staff to teach them how to manage or work with new systems and procedures. During a period of organizational change this is particularly important as many people will naturally resist changes. However, if those affected by the changes are given adequate information and training then such resistances can usually be minimized.

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