Hello
stylishly elegant people,
When someone
asks you how you and your partner are doing, you tell someone you guys are good
but are you, really good? It’s important to step back once in a while to check
the state of your relationship. You guys may have gone on several dates. You
might as well be wearing that engagement
ring or have given her the engagement ring, but are
you really good together? We assume our significant others know how much we
care and love them, but a friendly reminder never hurts.
Thus, your relationship check requires these
questions;
1. DO BOTH OF US
WANT THE SAME THING?
Truth be told, whether you are discussing
kids, marriage, or which city to settle down in, it’s important to be on the
same page as your partner. Compromise is certainly possible, but for
life-altering decisions, it’s never a good idea to assume that your partner
will change their point of view just to make you happy.
2. DO WE SHARE
SAME RELIGIOUS BELIEFS?
Besides, you can make a relationship work
if you don’t share the exact same religious views some say, but it’s crucial to
reflect and ask yourself whether you and your partner both understand and
respect each other’s religious preferences.
Can two walk together unless they agree?
3. ARE WE
COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER’S FRIENDS AND FAMILY?
It’s so unrealistic being a lover with every
single person in your partner’s family and social circle. On the whole, though,
you both feel comfortable and relaxed when you interact with each other’s loved
ones, and after a while you should be integrated enough that you don’t need
your significant other constantly by your side at a family or social event.
4. DO WE SHARE SAME
SENSE OF HUMOR?
Also, being able to laugh with your partner is
one of the key traits of a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Not only should
your partner be able to make you laugh, but he or she should also be able to
laugh with you about the same things.
5. DOES THE
RELATIONSHIP ADD VALUE TO YOUR LIFE?
Are you looking for someone who provides you
with intimacy and closeness, or fun and adventure, or stability and safety?
Whatever you want from a relationship is up to you, but your partner should be
someone who you feel adds value and meaning to even the most mundane of
experiences, and who challenges you to learn and grow instead of staying
stagnant.
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Relationship
check is something you should never joke about. It goes a long way to aid the
relationship!
Very valuable points. Lovely one. Thanks
ReplyDeleteThank you for this. Most people just go with the flow, and ignore or don't ask these questions
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