RELATIONSHIP CHECK- QUESTIONS YOU MUST ASK


Hello stylishly elegant people,
When someone asks you how you and your partner are doing, you tell someone you guys are good but are you, really good? It’s important to step back once in a while to check the state of your relationship. You guys may have gone on several dates. You might as well be wearing that engagement ring or have given her the engagement ring, but are you really good together? We assume our significant others know how much we care and love them, but a friendly reminder never hurts.
Thus, your relationship check requires these questions;

1. DO BOTH OF US WANT THE SAME THING?
Truth be told, whether you are discussing kids, marriage, or which city to settle down in, it’s important to be on the same page as your partner. Compromise is certainly possible, but for life-altering decisions, it’s never a good idea to assume that your partner will change their point of view just to make you happy.

2. DO WE SHARE SAME RELIGIOUS BELIEFS?
Besides, you can make a relationship work if you don’t share the exact same religious views some say, but it’s crucial to reflect and ask yourself whether you and your partner both understand and respect each other’s religious preferences.
Can two walk together unless they agree?

 3. ARE WE COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER’S FRIENDS AND FAMILY?
It’s so unrealistic being a lover with every single person in your partner’s family and social circle. On the whole, though, you both feel comfortable and relaxed when you interact with each other’s loved ones, and after a while you should be integrated enough that you don’t need your significant other constantly by your side at a family or social event.

4. DO WE SHARE SAME SENSE OF HUMOR?
Also, being able to laugh with your partner is one of the key traits of a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Not only should your partner be able to make you laugh, but he or she should also be able to laugh with you about the same things.

 5. DOES THE RELATIONSHIP ADD VALUE TO YOUR LIFE?
Are you looking for someone who provides you with intimacy and closeness, or fun and adventure, or stability and safety? Whatever you want from a relationship is up to you, but your partner should be someone who you feel adds value and meaning to even the most mundane of experiences, and who challenges you to learn and grow instead of staying stagnant.

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Relationship check is something you should never joke about. It goes a long way to aid the relationship!

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  1. Very valuable points. Lovely one. Thanks

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  2. Thank you for this. Most people just go with the flow, and ignore or don't ask these questions

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